I came across this article today and thought it was worth sharing. Though my children are opposite of this mom's (my typical child came first), I know that I will be in her shoes very soon. It's encouraging to know that we are not alone!
Our Special World | Adoption Information from Adoptive Families Magazine: Domestic, International, Foster and Embryo Adoption Resources
*Due to copyright issues, I can't repost the article here, can only link to it. Sorry, but it is worth the read.